So for the past month or so I have been really struggling with body image and eating. There were days that I would eat anywhere from 350-600 calories and other days where I would eat the recommended 1,200 calories exercising with both. But after having surgery to remove my lymph node I was not able to be active because it caused me pain to walk. Also my mom wouldn’t let me go swimming even though my surgeon said that I could swim 5 days post-op. He told my mom Monday (11 days post-op) that it would be fine for me to swim. The news I received from my surgeon was not the greatest (I’m not at the point of actually sharing what it is but after I meet with another doctor next week and know more, I’ll decide then).
Today when I went to follow up with my PCP for my hand (the reason I haven’t been able to make posts) she told me that I had gained a lot of weight in the past 2 months. One thing we never talked about was my weight because she was aware that I have an eating disorder. My blood pressure was high 132/82 but that’s mostly because she had just told me that I gained a lot of weight. I was frustrated with that and I was already anxious. 132/82 with me being frustrated and anxious is not that high. She then proceeded to tell me that I need to make healthier food choices (which I already do). So when I left her office and got in my car, I just cried for a good 5 minutes. I just felt so bad about myself.
I then proceeded to go to the store to buy the same weight loss pills that I did before when I relapsed, plus one that I hadn’t tried before but had good reviews. It wasn’t a completely conscious decision but I felt like I had to do it. I took them when I got home and about an hour after I made lunch because I was hungry but I made sure of calories and serving size.
After I ate, I had the feeling that I have most often after eating anything except negative calorie foods, I need to purge. I usually I am able to ignore it and move on with my day, but this time I couldn’t. I just felt disgusting.
I struggled with my self for about 5 minutes trying to decide whether or not I wanted to. Then like second nature I purged. I know that if I directly told any of my friends that I purged they would just tell me how bad it is for me and that I should stop. But what a lot of them realize is that there’s only so much that I have control over. When they tell me “just eat a smaller portion size or eat a salad” well I’ve tried that before and I still feel like purging and I have purged that too.
What this means for me right now:
As of right now I am probably not going to eat for the rest of today or I will eat minimally and I relapsed and I don’t know how far this will go. It could just be one day and I move on with life pre-relapse or I could go back down into the hole of an eating disorder. With my past history with purging I purged at least twice a week and used laxatives fairly often after meals. I have already started to become concerned with calories, fat, and sodium content, and I created a list of foods that I should eat and exercises and how many calories they burn. I’m at a point where I really don’t care if I fully relapse.
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